i'd like to say that girls, we need to smarten up. the world is filled with too many girls who are too busy shopping for the "latest" items to open up a book once in a while, that the only book they read are magazines. honestly, i'm a little concerned at the disaster that has hit our species. i think the main problem is not that girls are born dumb, but they don't smarten themselves up as they grow older.
girls - if you know you're bad at something (ie, driving) avoid doing it, or get better. don't assume you're always right.
if a man is upset, chances are, you're the one to blame. not many men are actually sissies.
if you're wearing a low top and a miniskirt, don't bitch about it when a guy decides to hit on you, and then assume all guys are like that. you're dressing like a whore, expect to be treated like one.
if you don't have anything smart to say, don't say it. if you don't speak, nobody will assume you're mute.
if a boy shows interest in you, don't lead him on, don't "enjoy the attention". TELL HIM RIGHT AWAY IF YOU"RE NOT INTERESTED. RIGHT.WHEN.YOU.FIND.OUT. and be firm about it. no "i'll think about it" or.. "now's not the best time". just say "no, i'm not interested in you. sorry, but i'd rather be honest." let the poor man go, infatuation is not easy to beat.
if you're interested in somebody, let them know. i'm serious about this one. don't "wait for him to make a move" i know i said not many guys are sissies, but if you're both "waiting for a right time" you may never GET a "right time". don't be afraid of rejection, because if you're brave enough to show your feelings and he turns you down for shallow reasons, he doesnt deserve you anyway. if he rejects you and is honest with you because he simply doesn't feel that way, well, at least now there's some sort of closure.
don't bother playing hard to get or the guessing game.this isn't the movies, attraction doesn't happen that way.
if you want to attract a man, don't show off/flaunt anything. be yourself. be genuine.why? because if your true self doesn't attract him, he's not worth it. why? because if you do attract the man with what you flaunt, your relationship won't last, because it's based on what you pretended to be, not who you really are.
overall, these things are logic, but i don't know why it doesnt seem like it.
honesty is the best policy, when you have nothing good to say, nothing productive to say, don't say it.
that's all. | 
